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Clamps, paddles, cuffs and collars we give a quick whip around the world of soft bondage

I read recently an article that described soft bondage as something

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Kat reviews the Mantric mPod vibrating bullet, her first Mantric sex toy which didn’t fail to impress

Mantric mPod is the first Mantric sex toy I have ever tried and on first impression it looks elegant with a modern twist. Clearly aimed at the gadget savvy

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Choosing a dildo for the first time can be a little confusing and knowing which dildos will

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The Rabbit vibrator has long been a first choice for women when looking for a sex toy but we are often asked how it can be taken from the bedside drawer a

We are asked many times how you can use your rabbit vibrator with your partner. Some women may have only tried the rabbit vibe and consider it so good as a masturbation aid that a logical step would be to bring some of that pleasure to share between you. Another scenario is to introduce an inclusive element to sex toy play, if your partner knows th…

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The short answer is no, addiction to a vibrator is not going to befall all women that venture into an adult store to purchase a vibrating sex toy. This is more likely a myth perpetuated by a society that isn’t entirely comfortable with a woman actually experiencing pleasure without the need for procreation. Using vibrators will not replace the need for human contact nor become the sudden sole focus of your sexual enjoyment. Vibrator use does not lead to a ‘bad habit’ and much like all desires you will experience a thirst for your toy and at times leave in it the drawer, such is the balance of libido and sexual appetite.

The fear of sexual pleasure leads some people to believe that enjoying sex toys and unleashing sexual libido will lead to some sort of lack of control.It is actually healthier to enjoy your sexual urges rather than suppress them and surely history shows that in societies which suppress sex experience very strange consequences in deviance’s that would certainly counter the societal norm. There is no limit to the amount of sexual enjoyment you can experience and using vibrators is part of that. In the case of Sex addiction it isn’t an addiction to your vibe but a psychological dependency on sex itself.

Seduction, Sex, Sensual treats, sex toys, Sushi or Slobbing out on the sofa, whatever Valentines means to you we have some tips to make the evening go wit

Whether you are planning a hot and horny session of unadulterated sexual exploration or preparing a sensual love nest for you both to re-discover your most pleasurable personal parts we have devised a list of favoured tips to incorporate into your Valentines celebration - Enjoy! Plan your Seduction- Valentines calls for a little extra effort and it only takes a small amount of planning f…

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Us girls are loving the new loving joy sex toys practical, sassy and pretty to boot they have caught our eye amidst the waves of new sex toys sent for our perusal. Loving Joy is a sex toy brand to suit the modern day girl or couple with many different treats for the boudoir. The sex toys come as Jessica Rabbits, handy toys for your handbag, waterproof sex toys for bath time fun and handy pocket sized toys for a single girl or couples play. The presentation is fresh and funky with a modern take on some traditional toy favourites.

The Jessica Rabbit range offers the slim rabbit to the Jessica Rabbit Ultimate Plus a firm favourite with ladies that like a larger shaft. The Adonis Rings allow you to use one ring or all three in configuration whilst the Loving Joy Vibrating Love Ring has a ticker shaft to ensure erections are kept at their hardest! For fans of G spot rabbit vibrators the Jessica Rabbit g spot slim vibrator  has a perfectly angled tip to massage the g or if you are a fan of the bingo Loving Joy’s Jessica Rabbit Bingo will tickle and tease.

The bullets and pocket rocket style vibrators are a real treat with soft touch coating and strong powerful vibes. Clitoral vibrators that can fit in the pocket for travel or a night on the town, Loving Joy is a brand to suit a modern girls needs!

Whether elusive or earth shaking we look at the female orgasm and ways to improve it

It is a fact that more women than men report difficulties in achieving orgasm. It is stated that about 40% of men will experience some problems with climax during their sexual lifetime, however men tend to orgasm easier through both masturbation and sex which means that us girls need to be aware of the female orgasm facts.So many facts and figures are tossed about in the flotsam of femal…

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Kat & her partner review the Monkey Spanker Male Masturbator

The, cheekily named, Monkey Spanker is a male masturbator but, unlike sex toys with a tube design, this is more like a paddle i…

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What exactly do we look for in the opposite sex and what is it that determines the laws of attraction. It might be that individual factors point you in the direction of a particular type but what universal things play a part in male and female attraction.

What Men Are Looking For

It is said that men subconsciously note the reproductive health of a female. The areas that will register are healthy teeth, youthful face, full hips, full and high breasts and tight waist to name a few. Apparently these indicators show a woman to be in physical shape when it comes to child rearing and men have an in built ability to pick out these signs.

What Women Want

In the same vein women register male physical attributes that mark him out as able such as wide shoulders, firm buttocks and muscle tone. The factors that spring forth show the guy as good mate potential and an able father to offspring.

This does not mean to say that sexual preference does not play its part. Some men light big breasts and others small and pert whilst some women like a beefcake and others like tall and slender. It is also recognised that we may seek out the qualities of our mother or father and alter taste during different stages of the female cycle,