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If  you are a woman who asks the question, why Sex toys?  then you will be interested to know that sex toys can increase sexual intimacy and improve physical pleasure for you and your partner.

Sex toys are of particular benefit to women who:

1. You are yet to experience an orgasm or struggle to climax.
2. You have achieved orgasm alone but are yet to experience climax with your partner
3. You are looking to spice up a relationship in the bedroom
4. Your partner is away a lot and you are looking for pleasure when he is absent          

It is not unusual that a women has used a sex toy to experience her first orgasm and if you take the time with a partner to use a toy for mutual pleasure this increases sexual intimacy and your bond together.

You may not be aware that many sex therapists and sexuality experts prescribe sex toys to patients. Sex toys can be liberating, safe and really good fun once you discover the types that suit you best. Start off in a beginners section and gradually spread your horizons, your sexual pleasure knows no bounds.

Its always exciting when a new toy concept comes along that epitomises what women want from a sex toy. The We-Vibe professes to have it all so here at Boudoir Sex Toys we look at the latest couples to

The primary thing that caught our attention in the office was that the We-Vibe is a Clitoral and G Spot vibrator worn whilst making love. What? We have been conceiving ingenious positions and sourcing micro vibes and clitoral stimulators to climax during copulation since we hung the sign over the door. What we wanted to know was once you looked beyond the marketing hype…

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Strawberries and Cream anyone?

Pasante the condom manufacturer have launched a new range of condoms for the summer months. The mixed pack contains such summer time flavours such as strawberry and vanilla to indulge those sultry sexy summer nights.

According to Pasante’s press release the summer months induce a hot bed of couples sexual activity. Research carried out at the University of California (where else would they  study fornication with such enthusiasm) states that an hour of sunshine a day can increase a man’s libido through a 60%  increase in testosterone levels. Whether enjoying singles sex or part of a couple Pasante have given us no excuse to cover up in full summer time flavour and practice safe sex during the coming sunny months.

Blending Orgasms during sex or masturbation gives strength and intensity to the big

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Dildos have been around since the dawn of time with the earliest example found 30,000 years ago. We take a look at the dildo the most histo

Dildo: a phallic shaped sex toy, manufactured in all shapes and sizes for vaginal penetration. The dildo could be perceived in a modern day context just as any other erotic toy but this humble phallus has a history woven into the society of many ages with reference and examples from Cassical, Egyptian, Greek and even Paleolithic times. The origins of the word Dildo is open to some debate…

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I recently visited Boudoir Sex Toys and sat down with Angelina, its founder and MD to discuss the topic of sex toys and women, the impact of a growing adult market in the female retail sector and the future of sex toys for women and its influence on societal perception of female sexuality.

Angelina you come from an academic background, what made you decide to set up Boudoir Sex Toys (The Boudoir)?  

I had always planned on staying inside academia for much longer than I did perhaps a research post or study abroad, but after completing my last degree course my entrepreneurial urges over rode and I left to embark on my first project importing children’s clothes and trading designer second hand items through various outlets I set up. This was pre - Ebay and it proved extremely successful at the time. I moved into land purchase and property development after that and supplied fresh produce to the supermarkets for a while. I think of myself as a ‘Del Boy’ and am continuously seeing opportunities in daily life to set up a stall and peddle my wares. I brought my first sex toy at 19 from a private shop and thought to myself ‘why can’t I shop for this in a comfortable environment?’ It was a horrible experience and it was an idea I shelved for 15 years later until Boudoir Sex Toys came into existence at a time when I was looking for a new project. 

What difficulties have you faced establishing  Boudoir Sex Toys as a woman?

I think being a female in the adult industry has proved fairly irrelevant, in your personal life its more significant. My friends and family were great and perhaps not surprised after my years of dabbling in various market sectors. The true difficulty is establishing an adult business  full stop. I was completely unprepared for the response I got from banks, merchant providers etc as an adult start up. The level of competition and expertise needed to establish a company online in an extremely competitive environment also takes you by surprise. Its easy to see the companies that had the technical knowledge before the ’sex toys’ company formation whereas I had Boudoir Sex Toys mapped out with no experience of trading online. I stick with things though, which is why four years on Boudoir sex Toys is still here.

Do feel that the adult market caters for women adequately?  

Yes I do, as with any market it adapts to the lucrative areas and if revenue streams become apparent then the market caters for that, it doesn’t discriminate. I feel that sex toys for women have entered a completely different arena and will continue to progress and improve with time. We had the rampant rabbit and Ann Summers did so much to bring sex toys to women in a more comfortable environment but today there are endless products catering for female masturbation and couples enjoyment over and above a rabbit vibrator.

What would you attribute to this growing female market?

Its simply spending power.  Women are paying their way and the power of their pound has attracted manufacturers of all category of goods and service not just sex toys. Women are therefore getting what they want from cheaper toys, innovations that pave the way and designer sex toy manufacturers that appeal to the affluent female market sector. At Boudoir Sex Toys we try to represent all of those products.

Do you feel that  society as a whole has become more accepting of the adult industry?

Ann Summers have obviously blazed a trail lfor all that is to follow and you have to admire the tenacity of the company. It would be fair to say that sex toys are becoming more mainstream and large high street retailers and manufacturers are realising the benefit of stocking and producing adult goods. The industry as a whole still has a long way to go but it is common understanding that it is a growing market of which there aren’t that many at the moment.

What makes you different from the many online stores at the moment and whats the future for Boudoir Sex Toys? 

The difference with Boudoir Sex Toys is the genuine interest in the industry. I think that many guys approach the market drawn to making the most  money online, understanding their capability at gaining top positions for primary keywords or with lots of cash to throw at the project. You need one or the other to make a significant impact from the start. I started Boudoir Sex Toys with a passion for the product and had to learn about the vehicle for selling which meant we didn’t make such a flying start in the natural listings. I feel the connection with our customers is far more personal and I want to develop that with time. I have plans to take Boudoir Sex Toys to the high street with some interesting store concepts in the pipeline!

You can visit Boudoir Sex Toys as www.boudoirsextoys.co.uk

Follow Angelina on twitter at  http://twitter.com/BoudoirSexToys

According to masturbation trials it takes 62 strokes of the hand for a man to climax. The preference was for a firmer hand and a few drops of sex lubricant oils the process to climax easily. If you want to please your partner it was suggested to adopt a tight grip with your palm close to the penis shaft at all times. Take a water based lubricant to prevent chaffing (you don’t want him groaning with pain instead of pleasure) and focus on the head of the penis.

The head and the ridge underneath the head for maximum masturbation technique, this is where the sensitivity of the penis is dominant. Tracey Cox author and sex expert suggests employing a twist once your upward stroke reaches the head, keeping your palm as close as possible and passing your wrist down the other side.

Another popular method is to squeeze your thumb and forefinger either side of his penis on the stroke so that the pressure is felt when your hand passes over the sensitive head area.

Remember you can always cheat and buy a male masturbator for less than 62 strokes or use a masturbation cream such as stroke 29 with its warming stimulating qualities that brings climax at the 29th stroke.

At Boudoir Sex Toys we have long been an exponent of the luscious lube. Get the low down on sexual lubricant and learn to satisfy with the sli

Sexual lubricants are associated with vaginal dryness and in the past have been a poor substitute for a woman

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When it comes to sex and sex toys men prefer the bedroom  to any other saucy venue. A whopping 74% when surveyed admitted to wanting sex in their bedroom over other locations.

Why is this?  Well a leading psychologist suggests that the male of the species are pre-programmed to naturally defend their territory, therefore men are less focused on the job in hand when trying to keep an eye out for possible interruptions or threats. So if you want one on one sexual attention from your partner then drag him to the boudoir and sex will be the only thing on his mind.